I know these things are meant to comfort or show support (for infertility/wanting to be a parent) but the following phrases really bug me:
1) where there's a will, there's a way
2) if you really want to be a parent, you will find a way to do it
3) you deserve to be a parent, so it will happen
I don't care what kind of willpower you have, sometimes it just won't happen. And just because I don't want to adopt doesn't mean that I didn't "want it enough." And that deserving thing really pisses me off. So I'm not deserving of a baby, but the stupid teenage girls that can't graduate high school in six years are?